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Jun. 5th, 2011 09:00 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
jumperfuckerThere's a thread on ![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
holmeschat right now that I will NOT link to, speculating the reasons behind my last post.
No, I am not going to go into detail, because what happened between us was a PRIVATE matter.
Yes, S left this morning. I suspect he needs a bit of time to cool off, and that's fine. I needed a bit of space afterwards as well.
But that thread is speculating on situations it knows nothing about. I tried to end it there, but was only accused of a few fairly unflattering things, so I gave up. Let the anons of the fandom think what they want. But I am going to say this right now:
S is not a psychopath. Not even close.
S has not caused anybody any physical harm.
S has not cheated on me.
I have not cheated on S.
The reasons behind this morning have NOTHING to do with anything S has done to me. Ever. I know we moved really quickly, but that was mostly a matter of circumstance. He was evicted from his flat, and I wasn't about to let him be homeless. And NO, he did not engineer his own eviction to be able to move into my flat. I saw what happened at his old flat, and I can say without hesitation that it was definitely an ACCIDENT. That space was far better suited for what he does than my flat. Here, he's had to divide most of his stuff between a leaky garden shed and a basement flat with poor lighting. He takes his art very seriously, and while he hasn't actually complained about it (big shocker for some of you, I know!), it's pretty clear that he can't work here. (No, that isn't what this morning was about either.)
So please. Shut up about it. Just because I'm upset at him doesn't mean I'm going to let you insult him.
holmeschat right now that I will NOT link to, speculating the reasons behind my last post.No, I am not going to go into detail, because what happened between us was a PRIVATE matter.
Yes, S left this morning. I suspect he needs a bit of time to cool off, and that's fine. I needed a bit of space afterwards as well.
But that thread is speculating on situations it knows nothing about. I tried to end it there, but was only accused of a few fairly unflattering things, so I gave up. Let the anons of the fandom think what they want. But I am going to say this right now:
S is not a psychopath. Not even close.
S has not caused anybody any physical harm.
S has not cheated on me.
I have not cheated on S.
The reasons behind this morning have NOTHING to do with anything S has done to me. Ever. I know we moved really quickly, but that was mostly a matter of circumstance. He was evicted from his flat, and I wasn't about to let him be homeless. And NO, he did not engineer his own eviction to be able to move into my flat. I saw what happened at his old flat, and I can say without hesitation that it was definitely an ACCIDENT. That space was far better suited for what he does than my flat. Here, he's had to divide most of his stuff between a leaky garden shed and a basement flat with poor lighting. He takes his art very seriously, and while he hasn't actually complained about it (big shocker for some of you, I know!), it's pretty clear that he can't work here. (No, that isn't what this morning was about either.)
So please. Shut up about it. Just because I'm upset at him doesn't mean I'm going to let you insult him.
