I don't think it's patronizing if it applies to both of you. Maybe you could come up with a list of flat rules together. That way you'd both get a better idea of what's OK or not OK with the other.
A good rule would be that if you break something belonging to the other person, you have to replace it.
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Date: 2011-06-04 06:57 pm (UTC)A good rule would be that if you break something belonging to the other person, you have to replace it.
Maybe you can throw things, but only socks...